DO IT BEFORE 30's



Have you ever heard of that term "forever young". Living like young person while you are old, is a dream of every person. In fact you can't stay young all of your life but you can challenge a chronological aging by maintaining a young like life. Everything starts from your mind. People says that thoughts can't be diagnosed, which is not right. Thoughts can be known right from your living. What you think can habitually manifested through what you eat, wear, speak, watch, spend time with and so many others.

Here down are things to do when you feel like aged and you have made a decision of staying young until a gate way to unknown world comes.
IMPORTANT THINGS TO DO BEFORE YOU TURN 30's
Congratulation for being such aged. You’re still young, but you’re starting to move into fully-mature adulthood. So how exactly should you change you life for the better? There are things to do before you turn 30. It will be better to begin at 20's specifically 24 for Tanzanian.
1. Stop buying cheap stuffs.
As a teenager and young adult, it’s fine to buy clothes and only wear them a few times, changing them as fashion dictates. However, now you’re older and probably settling into your first serious job, it’s time to start taking style more seriously. Invest in a few key pieces rather than buying a new wardrobe every few weeks. Buy long lasting stuffs, obviously they are costly.

2. Stop dating unsuitable ones for you.

It can be hard to find someone worthy of your time and attention, but by the time you reach your mid-twenties, you should have a better idea about what you need in a partner. Don’t waste your time on experimenting with people who you know, deep down, are not right for you. To experrment is to jump into relationship off your mind just your heart. Strike a balance between being realistic and being too willing to give people a chance. Don't act, be real you will find a real person. 

3. Stop caring what other people think.

It’s human nature to worry about what other people think of us, and no-one likes to feel as though they are being judged or criticized. However, being overly concerned with others’ opinions can cause you to lose sleep and even sacrifice your cherished dreams and ambitions in favour of living someone else’s idea of a great life. Trust your own judgement first and foremost.

4. Stop blaming your parents.

Sure, no-one’s parents are perfect and yours probably made their fair share of mistakes. However, it’s too easy to fall into the trap of blaming your parents or your upbringing for any current issues you may have. This isn’t productive, and will sour familial relationships.

5. Stop holding onto old hopes and dreams.

Are you guilty of holding onto aspirations that you really would be best off releasing? It may be time to trade in your old goals and ambitions for newer, more realistic aims. This doesn’t mean you have to give up on your vision of an ideal life, just that you need to keep your aspirations realistic.

6. Stop living in denial about your finances.

Those years when you could get away with being oblivious to the intricacies of your financial situation are over. It’s time to get responsible and set up a decent savings account, together with a pension plan if you haven’t got one already.

7. Stop being too nice.

This is an extension of Point 3, above, but deserves its own point. Stop people-pleasing. By your age, you should have a good idea of what you are capable of, and where your limits are. Learning how to say ‘no’ is an important step on the road to maturity.

8. Stop wasting so much time on the internet.

This is a tough one. These days, it seems as though everyone is addicted to the internet. We use it to find information, keep in touch with friends…and most of the time just browse social media unconsciously…wasting plenty of time. Learn to set time limits for yourself. You could even try one completely internet-free day per week.

9. Stop taking your health and fitness for granted.

Most of us can subject our bodies to late nights, too much alcohol and excessive junk food in college without feeling the after-effects. Unfortunately, as you move into your mid-twenties and then into your thirties, your body isn’t quite up to the task any more. Time to start eating more healthily and limiting those wild late nights!

10. Stop being messy.

How many hours have you lost looking for your wallet, cell or keys? Make this the year you finally start getting your possessions in order. Nothing makes you feel more mature than knowing exactly where your stuff is. Having an arrangement of your stuffs being organized it shows that you are matured enough to hard tough things like relationship.

Mwalimu Mwakajila F.A Jr
C.E.O
World Inspiration Inc
Inspired by God living beyond our potential limits.


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